Listening, a seemingly rare trait in humans, is the missing link to become a influential figure. It seems, in my eyes at least, that humans would much rather keep quiet in a conversation until it's their turn to speak rather than listen to the other person intently.
For example, have you ever noticed that most people just react in your conversation? They show no real motivation to listen to you, just to react to what you say in a bland way.
Because listening in such an important thing, thousands of hours have been devoted to studying it. Hundreds of metaphors and philosophical messages have devoted to listening also. The core message of all of the time devoted to listening points to one thing; Sometimes, good listening is to remain silent and allow the other to talk.
Listening in the truest sense points toward the importance of body language, remaining silent, and focusing all of your energy on the speaker. Of course, it also depends on whom you are listening to. Listening to a commanding police officer is much different than listening to your 6-year old child.
In part 2, we'll go over all of the kinds of listening possible and what they mean.
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