Random Thoughts on Love

Random Thoughts on Love

Love, something that many humans have, it a blessing hidden in disguise! Of course, this blessing is a chemical reaction with oxytocin and dopamine. Oxytocin makes you connect with them while dopamine will allow you to have an amazing time. The body is such an amazing thing.

As amazing a a love may be, it can also be bad. It allows the abused to stay with an abuser. Mothers to ignore their children's thievery and many more negatives. However, once you realize that you've been negatively influenced by so called love, it's relatively easy to break out of the cycle.

Love is no more than a chemical reaction but our bodies is a giant chemical reaction so it is fine. It's similar to how your testosterone will make you alpha male your friends or how estrogen will allow you to literally feel emotions. These reactions are purposeful but you must control how your body reacts to the extent that you don't alpha male others. 

Being an alpha male toward the ones you care about is nothing but your unconscious mind trying to make up for your many flaws. However, being an alpha male has benefits if you keep it under check. It will force you to grow stronger, smarter, and richer so that you'll always be in the lead. As long as you don't lose your shit and go insane, you'll be fine. Just stop bragging about this and that and trying to one up everyone. 

Relationships have no room for super alpha males but rather mild alpha males. These mild alpha male will not brag or create resentment but rather improve themselves so that they can be the best of their ability. The super alpha male will attempt to out do the other party in everything and create resentment by being a douchebag. You can't fix the super alpha male, they must fix themselves which they never will because they'll never come to terms with their failures. 

The estrogen in relationships will allow both parties to connect. It's not healthy if only one person in a relationship connects which is why a lot of guys need to let estrogen enter their body. Being feminine is not as bad as you'd think as long as it's controlled to the extent that you don't break down constantly or do something stupid. The super alpha male will never fully connect with the other party because they are clueless on how to actually connect. 

I believe that the only way to have a loving relationship is to have a medium level of estrogen to medium level of testosterone. Basically, I believe both need to be in sync and take hold to create something wonderful. A relationship can be anything from parents, girlfriends/boyfriends, animals, and friends. Finding the balance is hard but I'm sure most people can. Love though, it's pretty amazing.